Reginaldo Teixeira Coelho
The Transpersonal Dimension of Family Constellations
Most personal difficulties, as well as relationship problems, are the result of imbalances in family systems. These imbalances occur when we incorporate the fate of another person in the family into our lives, without being aware of it or having the intention to do so.
This causes us to repeat the fate of those who were excluded, forgotten or not recognised in the place that belonged to them and so, many times, out of love, we end up attracting the same problem into our lives in an attempt to diminish the guilt we feel. This is a natural process of compensation and happens involuntarily.
In the montian group with the participants our family in accordance with our perception, using the systemic theory of places and morphogenetic fields (by biologist Rupert Sheldrake) and Bert Hellinger’s family systemics. This montage is read by the therapist who locates areas of conflict or denial, which may also be family inheritance, and reorganises the system within the ‘Order of Love’.
The session is as exciting for the subject as it is for the assistant. We will see the saga of our family process unfold before our eyes, which sometimes includes grandparents and great-grandparents, thus succeeding in reorganising our destiny in the light of the Symmetry of Love.